r/askgaymen alternatives (2026)

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Is r/askgaymen still active?

Reddit's ban and quarantine status changes weekly. AfterDarker's index is refreshed on rebuild — if r/askgaymen appears on this page it was indexed at the time of the last refresh. Reddit-side status is authoritative.

Where did r/askgaymen users go after the 2023 API changes?

Most gay NSFW communities that dispersed after the API changes migrated to independent creator platforms and tube sites in the same category. The destinations on this page are drawn from that corpus.

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